The article I was
assigned to read “Dear Dads: Save Your Sons” Talks about the difficulties a
women has with her son not growing up with a male figure in his life. After counseling
and numerous attempts to alter his behavior the mother in the article is hopeless.
Being fifteen, in a gang, drinking, coming home days later, and not having any
respect for elders is a sure sign of poor parenting and a missing father
figure. This article show a lot of useful information on the subject but fail
to mention anything about mothers “sexist.”
This article
made me mad/confused and brought back some old memories. My mom and dad had me
at a young age and my dad left when I was two months old. I saw him very little
growing up it was always mom and grandma. I had got in quite a bit of trouble
as a teen and was in and out of court “with mom.” I dropped out of school when I
was 16 and worked full time because I had my son to take care of. I made a lot
of poor choices and never listened to my elders when I should have. I do not
blame my dad for this however; I think he is a bad influence and a drunk.
I was confused
reading this article because she starts the first couple of paragraphs making
it sound like all dads that are not with their families are bad, then towards
the middle switches it to a lot of the are good. I think she should talk about
the moms a little bit more and not put so much on the dads. I have a friend who
cannot see his daughter because his ex is mental and like the power trip and
child support that she and her new boyfriend enjoy. That’s my thoughts, anyone
have any feedback for me?
Shawn Opgaard